There is a reason the missionary is still a firm favourite in many relationships to this day! No matter your sexual orientation, this position can be adapted in ways that bring your sexual pleasure to new heights.
The Classic
By very definition, this classic position never goes out of fashion, however; like most activities that stick around for a long time, unless they are given a shake up they can become very boring. What's more, the mere thought of the Missionary Position may make you think you're not 'adventurous enough' or boring!
But classics become classics for a reason, right?
Sex that suits YOU
The him-on-top, her-on-bottom position has come a long way since it was penned in the late 1600s and early 1700s. I mean, why does the man have to on top? What if there is two penises in this relationship? Can lesbians or sex between two vulva-having people of any identity, perform missionary? The answer to all these questions is of course, anyone and everyone can gain pleasure from this position and that is the beauty of it. Have two penises? Have the receiving partner lay down and tilt their hips upwards. Heterosexual? Switch it up by having her on top, legs between his as he penetrates, and grind that clit against him!
Tribbing
Tribbing is the world's answer to missionary between two vulva- owning people. While one of you lies on your back, have the other generously apply some lubricant (get adventurous here- a passionate, heated intimate massage works wonders for setting the tone!), and of course, you'll need some too! Slide your body down your partner's while they lift their legs over your hips, until your private parts meet. Now, grind against each other, finding a rhythm that suits you both. This position is amazingly intimate; you can see each other's pleasure and you can caress each other's body while the sensations from your clitoris take you both to new heights. If you're looking for penetrative sex, try adding a strap on to the session and enter your partner whilst you grind.
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First published by Vicky Crone 20th April 2022